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How To Holiday-Proof Your Relationship

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As a sex therapist and founder of Good in bed, 'Tis the season for several new appointments than ever, and continue straight through the new year. Expectations are high with levels of stress and pressure, and all that this month we will talk about how to holiday-proof your relationship.

Begin to recognize these "triggers" that can easily distract the escalation of tensions and emotions put a serious brake on all the fun.

1.Attention to your Inner Scrooge. Money. Is the No. 1 cause of divorce, and the No. 1 cause of anxiety during the holidays, especially for men. The pressure to buy from a partner that special gift for all different gifts for family and friends, many men are afraid of how the holidays come to the bottom line. It is also a time of year when guys are concerned about bonuses, raises and general year-to-be financial, so that our level of anxiety around money is already high.

So now, together to create a budget, agree and stick to it. Talk through the strategy. Decide how much you can afford to spend for gifts and other items. Think of creative ways, and spend less. Get the same team against the budget travelers.

2.There is an Under Grinch Smile. A lot of guys have told me that they feel strong pressure to be happy during the holidays, but inside they really want to Grinch, which was Christmas. As the result, we have a cultural understanding of how the holiday is to celebrate, but few of us who idolized growing experience, and more than likely, you have relationship with someone whose vision of the holidays is not the same as yours.

Your ideal vacation would listen to carols, buying a giant Christmas tree and watch replays of Rodolfo, but the person with the findings that very frustrating. Remember: Your way to celebrate the holidays is not the only way. Have a talk with your partner: "What the holidays mean to you, what it means to me"

It is not just for new couples. The issues seem to surface -- like what size tree to buy -- actually find a psychological core is based on how we experienced the holidays are, and what seems simple but actually quite complex.

3. Beware the Mother-in-law abominable. During the holidays, often thrust together for several days with our family. Conflicts are bound to happen, and things that are present should be strengthened.

Couples often complain to me about post-share vacation that can not handle. - "Being in the room with his mother, becomes a kid again and brings with him at all."
During the holidays, one of the best gifts you can give your partner is to protect family members and defend toxic during the clashes.

4. Don't Blame the Mistletoe. If you are in a less than perfect, it's easy to get over yourself and feel that everyone is happy but you. With many parties and the alcohol flows, it is not surprising that many cases occur during the holidays.
Attention to flirtatious friendship, increase every holiday exuberance. Kiss under the mistletoe could easily lead to more.

5. Give Yourself the Gift of Nookie. This is my favorite trick of all. Stress and anxiety can put severe limitations on your libido that overeating and drinking in excess. As a sexologist, I see countless couples stuck in the ruts sex vacation, which rubbed off on the new year.

A lack of intimacy enhancer triggers and all other negative behaviors discussed previously. But sex is healing and rejuvenation and can give you the strength and sense of connection you need a holiday-proof your relationship and get into a positive place.
Sex is good for you. Relieves stress, boosts immunity, the same sex can release chemicals called endorphins being and improves sleep.
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